Master Self Love - ITs what we do (dublin / pleasanton / livermore)

Self-Love Self-love is a concept that often gets less emphasis than romantic love or love for others.
There are a few possible reasons for this: • Focus on external validation: Society often places emphasis on external validation and achievement.
This can make it seem like self-worth is dependent on external factors rather than intrinsic qualities.
• When we were babies and young we were very egocentric – it was all about us, having our needs met by others and as we matured, we learned to moderate our egocentric behavior and we were taught to focus on others people needs and this is where I believe problems start to arise – because we were not taught balance • Through our parents and teachers, friends and through societal manipulation we are taught to seek validation from the outside.
Through sports, academics, work and social networks such as Facebook, twitter etc.
we start to be critical of ourselves and then see ourselves as not significant, or worthy.
We are taught that we will find what makes us happy outside of us (when you find a girlfriend, boyfriend or spouse, get a well-paying job, a nice apartment or house so as to attract that special someone that will make us happy and complete (false) not true… and then we pass the same negative beliefs to our children… Because we followed the party line we forgot about ourselves in general by not loving ourselves and began to seek external validation through being over achievers, proving ourselves to our jobs and bosses, sexual validation lets us know we are still desired and loved, so we might cheat on our partners to feel significance to be able to say that “see someone else wants me - and so on we began to lose ourselves in the program we bought without question, because this is the false programing we are taught everyday slowly at first so we would not recognized that we were slowly giving in to the current program you are using today.
• When is the last time you told yourself “I love You” while looking in a mirror and told yourself to have a great day - chances are very slim you have done that – or never because we were not taught that.
Everyone is more important than us – and people wonder why cheating is socially understandable – maybe your partner isn’t paying attention to you.
Treats your poorly and the list goes on for reason why we do things… • But I guarantee that you have been critical of yourself today and even said to yourself that you are not lucky, no one loves me.
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I am not pretty, I am not handsome, I am stupid, I am not worthy of happiness, I am fat, I am ugly, I am not smart enough ….
This is poison to us – because we began to believe our words.
We have up to 60 thousand thoughts a day and 95 % are repetitive thoughts we had the day before – these thoughts are mundane and worries that loop in our minds – and you wonder why we don’t love ouselves • In the past I was like the majority of people just enduring my life as if this is what life was all about… Not a particular happy future I was making for myself - I Had to change my story, my perspective – and I shifted • Because I was selfish in my way of thinking , I was trying to control my environment to make myself safe and therefore happy - )I needed certainty (sledge hammer to the old noggin -) I was behaving as though I was a victim – look what they did to me and therefore my behavior was justified in acting out towards them – WRONG Way – What is did next was try to understand how I was hurting myself and others by not loving myself – • My misunderstanding of self-love: Self-love can sometimes be misconstrued as selfishness or arrogance.
But true self-love is about acceptance and respect for yourself, not an inflated ego.
(Bamb) what? Do you want to change your perspective – Do you want to learn how to have a more rewarding Life than you already have and want to know what it truly feels to love yourself and others – By doing this work myself I reduced the arguments and frustrations and blame.
Because I learned to communicate differently and the outcome was I fell in love with my partner again because I changed a program that was not serving me anymore… If you feel you wish to learn new skills, be a better communicator, to actually feel that you are enough, you are significant and abundant - please call us and start your journey today – Remember – you were meant to see this post this was not a coincidence – they universe is working for you not against you… Email to set an appointment – KnowMyTruthinfo@gmail.
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